There are several reasons for which relationships end up. But main question is that they are end up permanently or for some phrase of a time?
If it end up permanently then both the spouses moved on in their life. But if it is not permanent then one could wish to get back your love again in the life. They tried a lot that how to get back love. Rare people get second chance in their relationship, make it perfect that time don’t make it worse.
If you want back your love in your life you just need to remember that you have to communicate effectively and freely on the topics which you should talk to her freely. Call her and text her to make her feel like that you still care for her and you missed her. Don’t call again and again or text her again an again. Just 2-3 times in a week is sufficient. Don’t sound needy to get back your love, show care and concern.
If you and spouse is facing a big argument, then go to her and if he/she still want to heard something, then with patience handle them and clear the reason of argument and talk about it calmly. Don’t make argument for the one sided, give him a chance also to put his thoughts on that. Avoid blaming game. Try to sort out the problem. Don’t push her/him to trust you. Make her feel own realization that you still have feelings for her. It will help you to get your love back.
Girls don’t like the wimpy lover who all the time go around you. Live your own life, focus on yourself. Go out with family, friends and have dinner in the restaurants in simple words remains busy. But this doesn’t mean that you behave like a snob or show attitude to your ex, or being rude to her. No!!! it doesn’t mean to be rude with her. It means whenever you meet to her be polite and friendly each time.
To get back your love you have to first understand the problems which was occurred in your life and due to which you apart from each other. By saying that you are feeling sorry for your mistakes and want her back in your life it sounds very bad. You have to show her that you are changed and you want to start a new life with her.
For getting someone you love back, you can still make things right, instead of finding out a way to make her repeat on her act of avoiding you. If you want get someone you love back, all you need to do is just talk to her and ask what made her move away from you, instead of stuffing your head with ideas to make her feel miserable of having let go of you.
Then, if she fails to give a genuine reason for her behavior, you don't need to hold on to her. Since, she has already made her decision, it’s your turn to set her off.